Girls Under the Radar
Although there are some shared autistic traits, girls and autistic gender-diverse young people may experience and express their autism in ways that are less visible from the outside, which can be harder to recognise, and can result in needs not being met.
Less visible expressions of autism can include
- Being consistently compliant to avoid conflict or distress
- Anxiety around change
- Subtle but increased stimming when stressed
- Shutdowns or situational mutism
- Masking or using compensation strategies to hide challenges
- Experiencing sensory overwhelm but hiding this
- Appearing fine throughout the school day, and unravelling at home
Common Traits in Girls
While this list is not exhaustive or exclusive to any gender, autistic girls and gender-diverse young people may:
- Display a deep focus in their special interests (often animals, nature, music, books, art)
- Be selective in communicating (seen as ‘extremely shy’)
- Be less prone to following traditional social conventions (seen as ‘bossy’ or not aware of social boundaries)
- Be a ‘high masker’ – hiding distress in public but melting down or shutting down once home
- Be dependent or reliant on one friend or drift between different groups, or prefer to be alone
- Be interested in friendship, but unsure how to approach making neurotypical connections
- Have strong sensory sensitivities (noise, food, clothing, temperature)
- Struggle with transitions and change
- Feel emotions intensely
- Prefer deep interest-based discussions to small talk
- Take a leadership role in play (seen as “controlling”) and prefer less reciprocal play
- Interpret language literally
- Be more fluid in their gender identity
- Be extremely empathetic, nurturing, and sensitive
- Have great attention to detail
- Be highly creative and imaginative
- Be a perfectionist in some areas but find basic tasks overwhelming
- Have a strong sense of social and/or personal justice
- Be very rules-focused and compliant
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